Death: When Someone You Love is Dying
Every human life comes to a close. Intellectually, we all know that. At that level, it’s just a fact. Death happens.
We’ll all end up as a little piece of history. That doesn’t take on any real meaning until we’ve actually bumped up against it. Even then, it can be pretty tough to open ourselves to the inevitable.
We can’t point to a place in history to exclaim, “See? Here’s one. No Death!”
It seems that some aspects of opening up to our mortality just naturally want to be placed on hold. Recognizing that someone we love or care for is nearing death remains at serious odds with other complex emotions. It’s awfully hard to imagine, “What if this is it?” We naturally want to hold hope that this isn’t “it.”
What isn’t hard to imagine is how you can be supported through that.
Whether a family caregiver, a friend, or someone supporting a family, knowing how to serve in that capacity goes a long way to reduce anxiety. Recently, Lincoln Home offered community education on Sharing the Care. It’s an amazing way to build a team of supporters in a short period of time. Whether for a pending death or to help someone through a rough patch with their health and recovery, having proficient skills in basic care-giving can be a saving grace.
Join us in April for Giving Excellent Care in the Home, a free, five-part series for giving care in the home. Covering topics like values, ethics, bed-bathing, and so much more, you’ll be adding a number of important tools to your toolbox.
Whether preparing for a job for the inevitable when you’re called upon to provide care for someone who means a lot to you, this class will give you valuable skills and confidence.